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| Woke up to the very sad news that Yed has tragically taken his own life. So very sad. God bless fella. Rest in peace.
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| Bloody hell. As far as I know, I never met him, but feel I knew him well. Crazy.
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| Woke up to the same news. He was a joy to be around. One of life's good people, he has been suffering with depression for a while now. I thought he was slowly making progress but in the end, it defeated him.
R.I.P Steven
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| Terrible news.. He has been battling depression for a while, but i never thought i would wake up to this.
It was only last week i was laughing and joking with him on FB. Just when you think someone is on the up and getting better... you actually dont know anything at all.
We will miss you buddy
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| An absolute ing shame, I can't put into words how I felt when I found out last night.
For those of you that didn't know him, yed had his troubles but he was a diamond of a bloke, funny, as already stated we thought he was working through them.
I'd like to share something being passed around facebook today, regarding the hot topic of males and mental health, just last week he was trying To Help a friend of his who was having a hard time.
Quote I do not take any credit for any of the following words. But I feel they need sharing.... this was written a few days ago by a friend of mine who has been struggling with his demons for quite a while.. sadly his demons won and last nite he took his own life... he will be sadly, sadly missed...RIP Steven Goodwin
Guys don't talk about Mental health, I find that sad, genuinely sad, I usually have to talk to women for conversations with depth, guys attitude is chin up, crack on, now let's talk about sport.
That may work for you, or you may just be uncomfortable with another man in front of you readying himself to pour out his soul but do you know, around 70% of suicide is male. We need to talk about it guys, stop feeling uncomfortable, stop attaching yourself to this societal attitude that we 'man up' and crack on. Do you know what is worse than being lonely? Being surrounded by people and still feeling lonely.
One thing that has bugged me through life is how I have had to swot up on sport, just so that I could have a conversation, I envy women, I hear their conversations and they are just so much more, I hear them talk about problems and situations and look at how they rally around each other, and then I see my male friends/associates/colleagues/general random males, talking about ing football, I'm not saying women don't have banal conversation we all do but they're so much more prepared to talk about anything. Hence 30% of suicide being female.
Crazy, 7 out of every 10 deaths by suicide is a man.
Guys reach out, talk about it, or please if all is well in your life please be prepared to actually listen to someone, a friend, an acquaintance, please just stop with this Alpha male bull.
If people write something on here, don't see it as attention seeking, see it has someone who has no ing idea which way to turn and is reaching out for something, anything to make sense of their life.
Now I'd need to clarify this isn't all males, I have had some great support through my own troubles but my ratio of concern was probably 80/20 in favour of women, and even still I struggle with abject loneliness and I find that when I do a friend purge I'm increasingly just binning guys, guys WE NEED to get our act together, we need to help each other and we need to start ing off all this machismo bull, be free, stop caring what society thinks of you and be brave enough to start giving a .
The time honoured saying at the man who committed suicides funeral.
"I never knew he was so unhappy"
Well maybe just maybe,he tried telling you and you didn't listen hard enough
It's ok to talk, so let's start doing it.
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Good night Ste, I hope you've found some peace x
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| Terrible sad news, I only met him once, but had spoke on the phone as he live near me down south. I'm gutted, he was just a genuine lad. Warrington was so in his heart. More then ever I hope we win this Saturday for him. My thoughts go to his family and friends. Rip Yed
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| I first met Stephen when I lived down south - he was a very easy going young man, nice to talk to, we enjoyed a beer together as we watched the u19's beat London and discussed old rugby injuries. I knew he had some personal problems but I can't quite believe he has gone, and at such a young age. Moving on was quite right when he says he was one of life good people. Shocking news and will be sorely missed.
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| Never met anybody on here, but Yed seemed like the kind of bloke you'd want to be a mate with.
I'll miss his posts on here. Had lots of good to say.
Such a shame.
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| Shocking news, hardly knew him in person but just from interaction on here I could tell he was a great bloke.
RIP.
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| We're all gonna have to shout at them wiganers, players and fans a little louder now...
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| I'm sure Steven will be at every game with us, giving the V's to Wigan home and away.
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| I'm sat here not thinking what I am reading is real, I knew he had some problems we often spoke on the fone, thought we were getting somewhere, I'm stunned, my thoughts go out to his family RIP mate.
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| This is so sad. We had corresponded on the internet and I was aware that he had suffered with depression, but along with others I had hoped that he was over the worst. Rest in peace Steve.
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| I've known Ste for a good five/six years. We had proper conversations about anything from rugby to black dogs to cycling.
I've known of his issues for a while and we used to discuss them in depth. I, like so many others, tried to help.
I hope his legacy is that what Morley's shared: It's ok to talk.
Rest easy, my friend.
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| Wow, i hadn't realised he'd spoken to so many people seperately on here about his issues, but it doesn't surprise me as he was a very friendly talkative guy.
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| its hard to work out why someone, with so many friends, and with so much to live for, would take their own life like this.... I guess we will never be able to understand how depression can effect certain people.
It's so so sad this.
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| We lost touch a while ago but he was always a decent guy when I spoken to him on here/FB and helped me a lot with my nutrition. RIP Steven.
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| I never met him nor spoke to him but feel an overwhelming sadness that any life should end like this.
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| Very sad.....
Rest in peace fella......
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| Very sorry to read this news.
Sincere condolences to his family and friends.
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| Terrible news. I only knew of Yed's mental health battle from reading his excellent posts on the subject. Not ashamed to say I shed a tear when I read this.
RIP Steve, my thoughts are with all his family and friends.
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| Rip Steven.
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| I'm truly wretched.
Friends on social media. I can't speak.
So sorry for him so sorry for his family.
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| RIP, never knew you personally but always enjoyed reading your posts. Thoughts out to your friends and family.
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| Again puts everything into perspective, RIP Fella
Will miss your Input and Posts, hope you have found peace
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