When you have a dilemma and you would seek advice from your dad , but he has been dead ten years , who can you turn to that you can talk to and be confident that the questions you ask will remain private between just the two of you ?

I have a question or two that I almost put on the Aunty McFields thread , but they are just a little bit to personal to post on there . It is nothing serious . It is just a principles and honour type thing .

Any Brothers or very close mates??
What about yer Mrs?
I'm sure when you take a few minutes BR the options will arise and make sense and god luck with it.

Three brothers , all very close , but it ain't something that they could advise on because I know they will always back me 100% whatever I want to do .
Does Aunty McField do sessions with individuals ?

PM him if you feel that way i'm sure he won't take the p!$$ or reveal anything on here.

there should be an 'ear to bend .com'

To be honest , somebody like McF would probably be a very good person to ask . Level-headed and broad-minded , and ain't shy of giving well though out honest advice .

I ain't very good at asking for help though . Never done it in recent memory . I have always been an helper. Inevitable that at some point the helper will need assistance I suppose , but where do they turn ?

Principle and honour - two words I hate as inevitably they lead to conflict.

I liken my state of mind these days to the bloke who reads the words to [url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DesiderataDesiderata[/url or [url=http://www.mikharam.com/Sunscreen[/url, put simply, as an individual you deserve respect, but you are a very small cog in a massive machine and the machine will happily keep on running without you, or without other cogs who may be driving you or who may be driven by you, you might feel that you need the cog under and above you, but actually, in the big picture, you don't.

Fook 'em is a phrase I often use - if someone fails me or crosses me (and there have been plenty in business), then that is the last time they will hear from me, life is too short, walk away and find something better to do, and do you know what - that are always much better things to spend your brain power on.

And cake, there has to be cake.




[iBe careful whose advice you buy,
but be patient with those who supply it.

Advice is a form of nostalgia.
Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal,
wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth.
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You could always ask advice using another name.

Just try it. Life's all about experiences. But make him wear protection and apply a lot of lubrication first time out.

Happy trails.

That's a very philosophical post Mr McF

It was the bit about cake that did it wasn't it ?

Definitely

If you think I ain't man enough to take it dry and hard then you are mistaken . And it ain't me that would be worrying about any contamination . I say contamination because I fear the risks involved would be far greater that any mere STD