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| Quote ="berrigans bitch"Not sure I agree with you there BR, when coupled with his comments it kind of gives a very dim picture. We also know that not all British folk are white and we are very much a multicultural nation, I maybe wrong but for me a racist is a racist there is no middle ground, mind you do doubt you have figured that one out, in my defence I am just as passionate about homophobic behaviour as well,
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As I said I was playing purely devils advocate by pointing out those statements and sentiments although adopted by racists are not in themselves racist and merely a comment of anti extremism and calls for control of immigration. I could quite happily support those sentiments and not be deemed racist in any way.
There is a view that there is in fact a middle ground where racism is concerned, its one that is probably ingrained in society and will take an very long time to erradicate. This view is one that eans a person holds view of difference without holding a view of inferiority. they can have friends of all races, wish no harm to other people of differing races yet when the chips are down they still use race as a differentiator whether conciously or subconciously. It comes from years of ingrained latent learning. I'm 42 and my granparents used racist language, that was how they were brought up. My parents don't tend to but deep down they'll have ingrained views that were told to them as a child. I would love to believe that I view all people equally and I think I do but in my sub concious I still notice someone of a different race even if I don;t discriminate, abuse or treat any differently. My kids will be even further down the line of not even noticing hopefully and eventually it will go. But there are different levels of racism. The other extremes being swastikas, burning crosses and the NF.
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| Quote ="berrigans bitch"What on earth are you on about ?..SR implied I should get some life experience and education, I replied that I was educated and was also raised on a council estate which offers life experience from the diverse set of people!
Badge of honour...Oh dear
I have not gone off the deep end I have criticised people who defend a racist thug..'" Nah.
Everything I said was pretty much spot on.
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| Quote ="berrigans bitch""Religious views: hang/burn the extremists then off with there stinking ugly heads"'" You COULD say an eye for an eye on this one (I wouldn't BTW).
Quote ="berrigans bitch""Political views: british jobs british folk, block up the channel tunnel"'" Lets be clear here did it say 'White British folk' or just "British folk"?, As there is some diffrence with what you have been saying.
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| Quote ="Roverswall"Nah.
Everything I said was pretty much spot on.'"
No it really was not
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| Quote ="barham red"As I said I was playing purely devils advocate by pointing out those statements and sentiments although adopted by racists are not in themselves racist and merely a comment of anti extremism and calls for control of immigration. I could quite happily support those sentiments and not be deemed racist in any way.
There is a view that there is in fact a middle ground where racism is concerned, its one that is probably ingrained in society and will take an very long time to erradicate. This view is one that eans a person holds view of difference without holding a view of inferiority. they can have friends of all races, wish no harm to other people of differing races yet when the chips are down they still use race as a differentiator whether conciously or subconciously. It comes from years of ingrained latent learning. I'm 42 and my granparents used racist language, that was how they were brought up. My parents don't tend to but deep down they'll have ingrained views that were told to them as a child. I would love to believe that I view all people equally and I think I do but in my sub concious I still notice someone of a different race even if I don;t discriminate, abuse or treat any differently. My kids will be even further down the line of not even noticing hopefully and eventually it will go. But there are different levels of racism. The other extremes being swastikas, burning crosses and the NF.'"
You are a few years younger than me and I can relate to your post, my Nanna once described my sofa as niger brown and my 2 children were left open mouthed! I agree it will take society a long time to educate, hence why I feel it is important that examples are made and set when and where it is appropriate, especially in the public arena like sport.
Personally it is different for me I never actually notice skin colour, though this maybe as my best friend for the past 30 odd years is black, plus I have worked with ethnic minorities and shared their tears and heartbreak at the racist behaviour displayed against them when all they want to do is just get on with their lives like the rest of us....I would like to have seen your club insist that Ben did some voluntary work with ethnic groups, mind you not sure he would have been welcomed with open arms like.
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| Quote ="berrigans bitch"No it really was not
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| Quote ="Roverswall"Well so far it seems only you think so.'"
Oh right, that clearly makes you right then
You was wrong, you claimed I wear a badge of honour as to where I was brought up, you clearly choose to ignore the valid reasons why I mentioned it because it suited your argument, let us be honest most know you have a reputation for this, but if it makes you feel good hey! ho! carry on.
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| Quote ="berrigans bitch"Oh right, that clearly makes you right then
You was wrong, you claimed I wear a badge of honour as to where I was brought up, you clearly choose to ignore the valid reasons why I mentioned it because it suited your argument, let us be honest most know you have a reputation for this, but if it makes you feel good hey! ho! carry on.'" No when i'm wrong I admit it, I have done a few times in the past.
You mentioned North Hull and other things.
Quote ="berrigans bitch"Clearly your morals are just as bad as your values!
You are correct I could be considered Mrs Goody Two shoes, you see I have always known right from wrong so I hanve managed the last 40 odd years mistake free!
I do believe people can change and should be given the support and resources to do so...However Ben Cockayne should have gone to prison, he did not and your club stood by him for his sickening crime, he repaid your club by displaying racist behaviour, he clearly has not matured and has shown no gratitude to the people who supported him and gave him the second chance...simple fact he is scum and always will be.
Oh I forgot I am educated to degree level, I was raised on a council estate (North Hull), I have worked with drug addict, offenders, victims of crime to name a few...'"
So exactly why did you add the last line?
Was it just for a laugh?
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| Quote ="berrigans bitch"The Hull Daily Mail showed some screenshots from Cockayne's Facebook page.
"Religious views: hang/burn the extremists then off with there stinking ugly heads"
"Political views: british jobs british folk, block up the channel tunnel"
Give me an hour or so II am at work), and I will get the link if I can.'"
You realise that none of the groups you've mentioned express a particularly racist view don't you?
I don't know of one person who doesn't want a hardline approach to extremism, this perhaps wasn't a wise move to join this group, but it doesn't make him a racist.
Again, I don't know of anybody who would prefer a job in Britain to go to a foreigner rather than a Brit.
Finally, a group that implies a reduction in the amount of illegal immigrants coming to Britain also seems to express a fairly normal emotion.
Which race do you think these groups prove that Ben is prejudice against?
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| Quote ="Roverswall"You COULD say an eye for an eye on this one (I wouldn't BTW).
Lets be clear here did it say 'White British folk' or just "British folk"?, As there is some diffrence with what you have been saying.'" Didn't want to touch this one with a barge pole then BB.
Strange that.
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| Quote ="Roverswall"No when i'm wrong I admit it, I have done a few times in the past.
You mentioned North Hull and other things.
So exactly why did you add the last line?
Was it just for a laugh?'"
Why have you conveniently failed to post the comments I was replying to ?
OK, for the second time...SR told me I should gain some life skills and education..You follow so far ?...so I replied I was educated to degree level, and I was raised on N.Hull (where there is plenty of diversity and life skills to be gained)!!
From that you decided I was implying that I posted where I was raised as a badge of honour etc, how you reached this conclusion is beyond me!! You clearly thought you could try to belittle me, you failed as per!
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| Quote ="Seventies red"
perhaps you need to do a little more living and recieve a little more education at the same time.'"
Just for you RW!
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| Quote ="Gordon Gekko"I was brought up on OPE, so can i play??
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Ah that explains everything
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| Quote ="Roverswall"Didn't want to touch this one with a barge pole then BB.
Strange that.'"
Mmm..as long as they are not Pa***i C****t eh!.....I honestly thought you were brighter than this.
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| Quote ="berrigans bitch"Mmm..as long as they are not Pa***i C****t eh!.....I honestly thought you were brighter than this.'"
So was it the comments on facebook or the assault that angered you the most out of interest.
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| Quote ="berrigans bitch"Why have you conveniently failed to post the comments I was replying to ?
OK, for the second time...SR told me I should gain some life skills and education..You follow so far ?...so I replied I was educated to degree level, and I was raised on N.Hull (where there is plenty of diversity and life skills to be gained)!!
From that you decided I was implying that I posted where I was raised as a badge of honour etc, how you reached this conclusion is beyond me!! You clearly thought you could try to belittle me, you failed as per!'" Point me in the direction where I have said claiming to be from OPE is a bad thing or that you shouldn't be proud of your upbringing?
Oh wait you can't because I didn't say it therefore where i'm supposed to be belittling you is beyond me as I wasn't.
I agree that NH/OPE is a learning experience, It still doesn't change thet fact that you USED your upbringing to win an arguement.
Still carry on.
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| Quote ="Gavin Miller - Legend"So was it the comments on facebook or the assault that angered you the most out of interest.'"
Both appalled me tbh...Obviously seeing the attack angered me as I am sure it did most, I was appalled he used the forces for his defence and I believe his profession kept him out of jail..I am totally opposed to racism as I hope most people are, but what made it worse is the fact he is not a teenager and he clearly has not learnt or shown any respect to the people who stood by him. His actions imply he has no respect towards fellow human beings.
This is not about it being a KR player for me both Cockayne & Raynor should have been banned from the sport to send out a message that racism is not tolerated in our sport, the fact they were not makes a mockery of the Respect campaign and sends out the wrong message to youngsters within our society.
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| Quote ="Roverswall"Point me in the direction where I have said claiming to be from OPE is a bad thing or that you shouldn't be proud of your upbringing?
Oh wait you can't because I didn't say it therefore where i'm supposed to be belittling you is beyond me as I wasn't.
I agree that NH/OPE is a learning experience, It still doesn't change thet fact[u that you USED your upbringing to win an arguement.[/u
Still carry on.'"
No I never as it is irrelevant as to where I was raised, I am neither ashamed or proud of where I was raised, it is just a fact. I was pointing out I have life experience and have seen a few things in my time as it was being implied I had no experience or education ..
Any individual arguing against a racist does not need any ammunition, they have won the argument before it begins.
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| Quote ="berrigans bitch"Both appalled me tbh...Obviously seeing the attack angered me as I am sure it did most, I was appalled he used the forces for his defence and I believe his profession kept him out of jail..I am totally opposed to racism as I hope most people are, but what made it worse is the fact he is not a teenager and he clearly has not learnt or shown any respect to the people who stood by him. His actions imply he has no respect towards fellow human beings.
This is not about it being a KR player for me both Cockayne & Raynor should have been banned from the sport to send out a message that racism is not tolerated in our sport, the fact they were not makes a mockery of the Respect campaign and sends out the wrong message to youngsters within our society.'"
Perhaps if Ben had been found guilty of any wrongdoing by the police, he would have been.
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| Quote ="EL CAMO"Perhaps if Ben had been found guilty of any wrongdoing by the police, he would have been.'"
Maybe.....However his wrongdoings were clear for all to see.
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| Quote ="berrigans bitch"Mmm..as long as they are not Pa***i C****t eh!.....I honestly thought you were brighter than this.'" Right so we are back to that again then.
You still failed to answer my questions
What Ben wrote doesn't automatically make him a racist apart from the statement you have just stated.
No matter how many times you post it that wont change.
My view is that it should be British jobs for British folks in the current climate I can see nothing wrong with that statement.
As for the other statement on its own that COULD be classed as an eye for an eye.
Neither of those statements in isolation are racist comments.
Just to be clear here I belive Ben should have been sacked, But for his comment above and his previous discretion.
His other views that are been thrown at him are not necessarily racist.
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| Quote ="Roverswall"Right so we are back to that again then.
You still failed to answer my questions
What Ben wrote doesn't automatically make him a racist apart from the statement you have just stated.
No matter how many times you post it that wont change.
My view is that it should be British jobs for British folks in the current climate I can see nothing wrong with that statement.
As for the other statement on its own that COULD be classed as an eye for an eye.
Neither of those statements in isolation are racist comments.
Just to be clear here I belive Ben should have been sacked, But for his comment above and his previous discretion.
His other views that are been thrown at him are not necessarily racist.'"
Are you deliberately missing the point here...British jobs for British folks I agree is not necessarily racist in isolation..however when you also write P**i c***t, it puts a whole different perspective on that sentence.
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| I can actually understand both sides of the arguement to be honest.
But the courts and players clubs can sort it for me and im just a fan who watches the 17 picked every week and dont get worked up enough to have an outspoken opinion either way.
Players always have and always will do things in their private lifes that subject them to these type of threads.
Aspinwall at Cas has been far from an angel recently and there have also been many instances of players caught drink driving which for me is one of the worse things a person can do.
Getting angry on here about it doesnt really acheive much though.
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| Quote ="berrigans bitch"Are you deliberately missing the point here...British jobs for British folks I agree is not necessarily racist in isolation..however when you also write P**i c***t, it puts a whole different perspective on that sentence.'" No.
But I have said things in the past I havent meant and later regreted(Not saying that is true in this case).
So just because I say one thing in error that doesnt mean any other comments I make have to be taken In that same context (Again if Bens are).
You are of the opinion that because he said W that means that X+Y has to mean W.
That isn't strictly true, Neither you or me know that to be the case concusivley(sp).
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| Quote ="Roverswall"No.
But I have said things in the past I havent meant and later regreted(Not saying that is true in this case).
So just because I say one thing in error that doesnt mean any other comments I make have to be taken In that same context (Again if Bens are).
You are of the opinion that because he said W that means that X+Y has to mean W.
That isn't strictly true, Neither you or me know that to be the case concusivley(sp).'"
If you call someone p*** c*** i think it generally means you have racist views, hence why i thought he should have been sacked. Not being prosecuted has nothing to do with it as im not sure its a criminal offence as such. Even if it is itss unlikely cost effective to pusue. Hes admitted it was him therefore its against the club/sport ethic.
He wasnt so i assume we get on with it. Hope hes learned his lesson and manages to educate himself to change his views.
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