This is'nt a new thing is it! We have rarely been a team who regularly 'punish' the opposition. Year in, year out we find ways to make this so difficult for ourselves despite the fact that when we do the simple things right, we score. Instead of doing the same thing again, we change tactics and do the hard stuff - push balls that are never on, hold the ball when we should let go and so on.
It's so frustrating, yet nothing new for this supporter