Quote ="Sal Paradise"The fact you struggle with this is more a reflection on you than it is society as a whole.'"
Nice, but I actually didn't say I struggled with anything, I simply pointed out that as children age, they engage with are engaged by outside influences and how we as parents manage this, influences how our kids are moulded.
Good for you have 3 young Kids by the way.....once they have fully developed and have "lived a little" outside the nest, then you can tell us how you've got on. Personally I have a 23yr old who despite my apparent "struggles" has not (AFAIK) turned out too bad. Uni completed, debt suitably saddled and setting of on life's journey trying to carve her own little bit of happiness......all whilst respecting herself and others, showing tolerance and unfortunately, following Chelsea FC. The last bit is down to her 2 older cousins who she grew up with......see my bit about incontrollable outside influences. I did manage to counter this and she still looks out for the Broncos results and shares my utter despair as to the basket case the club has become.
The Other one is a tad more tricky as he's only 14 weeks old......and I can assure you 100%, bringing him up with the same standards and morals of his big sister will be more difficult in the 21st Century than it was at the end of the last. This isn't because I "struggle"...it's because there is a far more intrusive media that is now part of our lives......no doubt I'll "struggle through"
All of which is pretty irrelevant when discussing giving a wayward player who now has a conviction for indecent assault getting yet another chance, by dodging UK border regulations by signing for a French team that play in the competition. I say No.......not because I fear for my sons future as a direct result, but because as a sport we need to make a stand. We got wall to wall coverage for the wrong reasons at the Grand Final and now Burgess is the poster boy for the other lot, the last thing we need is to be giving any limelight to pond life like Ferguson.
He's a wasted talent? So what...he isn't the first and he won't be the last, but the sport will survive without him.