Quote ="Eastbourne Warrior"I wrote 2 paragraphs. In the first I said I want to stress I'm not defending flower and it's one of the worst things I've seen on a rugby pitch yet you still say I'm defending him and call me a grub.'"
School teacher to pupil who has just had a fight.
"you slapped that child didn't you!?"
"I did, and I am sorry, but,,,, he hit me first!"
That's why you are being castigated, you are demeaning the act by offering an excuse. your paragraph saying flower was a tool is negated by your saying he was hit by LH. you are actually making an excuse for Flower's behaviour.
Have another read of what you have written and replace the LH with Matty Smith and replace Flower with, say, Ryan Bailey or Gareth Hock* and tell me you wouldn't see outrage if someone defended such an act by say, "he hit him first"?
*apologies to both Leeds and my lot but we all know those two are not well liked by opposition fan