Quote ="cod'ead"But once he'd done it, he's hardly in a position to moan about it happening in return'"
"Position"? What you on about? He is in exactly the position the article says he is, namely that his whole life was blighted by the killing of his fiancee. Clearly he was so traumatised by it that he has never been able to move on from the hate he must have felt when it happened, and hasn't been able to rationalise and process it like most. Before you patronisingly judge him for his irrational mindset, let's have someone do it to you and see whether your mental processes cope better.
It's a shame he has never moved on from that, but he obviously has long standing mental issues caused by the trauma, and frankly referring to the poor old man's plight as "moaning" or referring to his "position" is as crass as it is irrelevant.
Also I doubt very much he'd be surprised if survivors of his raids felt just the same about the Allies, the fact that seemingly most have found ways to move on and put it in the past doesn't alter that. Personally I find it a shame that, at his age, the press should publish this stuff, even if he wanted it widely known. They should have left an old man with his private grief and irreconcilable bitterness.